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OUR TRIBUTE TO SHIRLEY

Also known as Oma

Lois and I received an email on the morning of July 5, 2004, from our cousin Shirley. I asked her permission to post it below. Thank you for having been our cousin, our email buddy, and for having inspired me to become a webmaster. We both regret not having played a snooker round with you in tournament play (word has it we would have been snookered good), nor climbing mountain trail hikes you conducted for years. But the times we spent together growing up with you, your sister Beverly, your dad Ervin and your mom Mariam are and will be remembered until we all meet again.

Shirley was an immensely strong woman full of the Grace of God to have sent this email to all her friends. Shirley passed away peacefully at 12:30 PM on September 22, 2004.

~ Gene and Lois ~


PHOTO OF SHIRLEY AT CAMPFIRE SIDE JULY 12, 2004!

DANCE, OMA, DANCE

THE SHIRLEY "OMA" SHUFFLE

Two fun pages dedicated to Shirley. After viewing these pages - return here with the necessary clicks of your browser back arrow.





One mean game of cards

Shirley "Oma" in one mean card game with a grand daughter!
Photo courtesy of Shirley's son Curtis


SHIRLEY BARROW UPDATE AS OF AUGUST 08, 2004
( Posted August 09, 2004 )

Can't help but think that all the prayers and thoughts coming my way is working. I am getting weaker and weaker and some itching, legs and ankles swelling and stuff like that but I am still here and it is August. Just going along day to day...but would be nice to see September. Been sorting thru "things". It is hard to believe the things we collect thru the years. Mornings are pretty decent and by noon if there was any get up....well by noon it left. Still sleeping good and rise at 4 a.m. or earlier each day.Weather is nice and cool and had some much welcomed rain the last few days. Prior to that it was hot...hit 108 F a couple days. It has been cooling off at night....and I do have an AC that keeps house very nice. Hope you and yours are doing ok...love ya Shirley


SHIRLEY BARROW UPDATE AS OF AUGUST 24, 2004
( Posted August 24, 2004 )

Viewing your guestbook worked fine. I can't believe all the comments. Having that site for me is wonderful. I am feeling more and more weak and moving slower all the time but still here without any pain to speak of...improved abit after having the oxygen to sleep with. Used to get up as tired as when I went to bed. Deyanne comes down and stays everynite ..... I know it is hard on her but sure gives me peace of mind. Curtis is planning to come up for a few days of 4th of Sept....so hope he can and another month went by. It will give Deyanne a break also. All the prayers and thoughts are working. Our weather finally cooled off and had lots of rain. It is on the cool side and grandads old quilt feels awful good on me on the daveno. take care love ya shirley


CURTIS BARROW UPDATE OF SEPTEMBER 22, 2004
( Posted September 22, 2004 )

Shirley Mae (Breitenfeldt) Barrow passed away at 12:30 pm today, the 22'nd of September, 2004. She was able to stay home, and was pain free, until yesterday, when she went to the hospital in Trail, BC. She probably left us sometime last night in her sleep, as she was unresponsive this morning.

We want to thank everyone for your many prayers, good wishes, and emails that kept Mom going for at least a month and a half past her predicted departure from us. She enjoyed hearing from everyone, even if she wasn't able to write or call back. She made a book of many of the emails and letters she'd gotten since her diagnosis and was always happy to look through it and to show it off to visitors.

As of now, there are no plans for a public service before her cremation, but we do plan to celebrate wakes in both Trail, BC, and the Flathead Valley in /\/\onTana! But not simultaneously...

As we decide what is going on, we will let you all know, and it will also be posted on the website with all of Mom's photos.

OMA . . . SHIRLEY BARROW WEB SITE

She's off fishin' one more time. Curtis in /\/\onTana!

PS: Please pass the news on to all who might be interested. Thanks!




BIOGRAPHY OF

Shirley Mae (Breitenfeldt) Barrow


May 25, 1930 - September 22, 2004 - 12:30 PM

The Email From Shirley

Some thoughts for my friends: In this age it seemed email was a good way to let you know of my status. Went to Kelowna to see the surgeon about clearing out an artery in the neck. The next day we headed home and noticed my urine looked awfully dark so stopped at the Emergency room in Kelowna . They kept me for a week doing all kinds of tests. I seem to have Obstructive Jauntice. They tried and tried to open or stent the bile duct so it would drain….but it wouldn’t do so. There is a large tumor over that area. My sentence is that this ballgame of life is just about over….3 strikes or more and it is over. I probably won't see August 2004. What a shocker for us all. My sons and families are all coming up this weekend. My sister and a cousin are coming up next week. Anyhow….what I wanted to say is that I have appreciated your friendship thru the years and this internet and email is such a wonderful thing. I have lived a very full and wonderful life….just thought it might be abit longer. So many of my pool/snooker playing friends and relatives and fishermen/women have gone on before me …….well before long I should see them again…. God bless you, love you, miss you and see you upstairs later on.

Here’s some verses I really like and will share them with you now.
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When I die I’d like to become a mountain that reaches the sky.
A thing of beauty, where eagles fly.
Where folks can look at me in wonder, amazement and awe.
Where people of daring could climb high unto my peaks where children and their parents and grandparents could fish in all my creeks.
A thing to fill the senses and make the heart feel glad…..for mountains have such beauty, they’ll never make you sad, when I die.


This next thought was inspired by an Eskimo legend:

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“Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in heaven,


A Native American Prayer for you:

I give you this one thought to keep.
I am with you still . . . . . I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am sunlight on the ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the mornings hush,
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I am the swift, uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone. . . . . .
I am with you still in each new dawn.


You might say I am survived by my wonderful family,
Friends and many trout that I have tried to catch from Montana to British Columbia.

Happy Trails, so long, take care.

~ Shirley ~






Midi Playing: "Happy Trails"


Would really be neat for you to post a message in Shirley's Family Guestbook during this time of their loss.

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